This was a great read. Yes, the Misogynoir is infuriating. But it also speaks to how much power white men have globally, not just in the United States. The ability to set limits on how feminine or masculine someone is allowed to be is tyranny.
Black womxn get a double whammy because either we're too masculine / aggressive / confident/ competent; or too feminine/ seductive/ thot like etc. Both are used to excuse and continue to perpetuate violence towards Black womxn's bodies.
This intersectional violence is ever present for me as a cisgender Black womxn, and even worse for my transgender/GNC/NB siblings. Thanks for putting this out into the world.